Me
& My Family - Value System
My
Value System
I
have made a 4-S Value System when I was in +2 - Simple, Sincere,
Straight and Strong. Now, I find that they are still valid and my
values include one more S - Systematic.
Now,
I am presenting to you all my Value System.
Strong:
To become strong – Physically,
Emotionally, Intellectually and Spiritually is my main desire or aim
of life. This is the very purpose of my life. Therefore it forms the
center core of the Value System
Sincere:
Unless we are sincere enough to admit our mistakes and take advises
from preceptors despite the fact that we do not buy them or agree
with them and follow them sincerely is the way to become strong.
Therefore I sincerely admit my mistakes, weakness and lacks. I also
follow the advices given by my teachers; even though many of them are
not in align with my ego or desires. Thus I demonstrate my sincerity
to become strong by casting off the Ego for the purpose of becoming
strong.
Straight:
The approach should be straight and
directed towards the utility. Unless we are straight enough to be
focused on the “Utility” and “Being” aspect of life, we would
not become strong. This is the aspect of being dotted on the exact
issues at hand and resolve rather than beating around the bush. This
is the efficiency and effectiveness factors regarding one’s action.
Simple:
The real measurement of strength is in
simplicity. Unless we are simple, keep things simple and live simply,
we would complicate our lives and thus it would drain our energies
and thus result in weakness. Hence to be strong, we have to follow
the virtue of Simplicity.
Systematic:
Unless we are systematic and maintain objectivity with integrity and
independence, we would not be able to simplify our life and thus
achieve the strength. I am finding that I am mad of making things
with objectivity and precision. This can come only when I
systematically convert all Subjective Knowledge into Objective
Consciousness. Only when I am systematic, I can transfer my knowledge
to others and get an extended arm or leave a legacy.
My
Family Value System
Unless
my family is complimenting my Value System, I can’t live it. I
believe unless it is a mistake of mine or self made deviation, I am
able to live my Value System. How was this possible when all my
Family Members are having different aspirations and approaches?
I
wondered and found that my Family’s Value System. The Component of our Family Value System are as follows.
Focus:
The Core of our Family Value System is Focus. We focus on Our
Relationship, Our Development – individually and collectively and
Our Expressions. There is complete adherence to the Required Focus by
each of our Family Members. We find that we are always fanatically
focused on what we do and hence, each of the family member is able to
add to the Family some Value.
Futuristic
yet Traditional: The Members of our
Family are completely futuristic and modern in our thoughts and
approaches. However at the same time we maintain our Family
Traditions. Tradition draw us together and binds us.
Friends
and Family: We are all well focused on
both friendship and family, thus we have balanced both the sort of
relationship and as a result able to extent the family beyond
immediate members and able to accept and accommodate any person who
is willing to accept our Value System. This keeps our family to grow
with apt focus on our Values.
Freedom
yet Self Disciplined: We enjoy complete
freedom. I can choose what I have to learn, the method I can earn and
even the way I worship. Hence, we are completely free to do anything
and every thing. The only constraint is we should not damage Family
Reputation, thus the concern for it makes us to be Self Disciplined.
Thus we are self regulated person. This aspect helps us to live our
individual life and as well as together as a family.
Full
Consideration: All of us are drawn to
consider issues from all angles – from the angle of individual
self, family, friends and general public. This makes us to be
sincere, straight and simple. Thus this Value of Family Aspect make
us unique and lovable and loving people despite our individual flaws.
This makes us to feel completely satisfied with our Family despite
our economic and other conditions.
Over
All Approach:
Value
System should be reflected in our activities. The activities follow a
pattern of thought processes and hence I studied the Value Chain of
our activities. I found that it has 5As. They are as below:
Attitude:
We develop our attitude continuously.
Strengthen it and guard it. This is demonstrated by our approach with
a focused “charging” of our emotions.
Awareness:
We try to become aware of our selves and that of the issues around
us. We debate, shout, discuss and fight to get hold of the issues
100%.
Acceptance:
We have the mind to accept what is not changeable. We approach any
issues, opportunities or problems, only affect accepting things as
they are
Adaptation:
We have the ability to make things to adapt to our requirements and
ourselves to adapt to the situation. We are evolving continuously.
That’s why each of our Family Members are having growing wisdom.
Accountable:
We have the responsibility to hold ourselves accountable for what we
do. This makes us more reliable and also increases our wisdom as we
suffer from our mistakes and learn from it.
Hope
you all enjoyed reading about me and my family value system and value
chain. I
hope this inspires you to become more self aware and draw your own
Core Values.
Yours
VN