Me and My Family - Value System

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Me & My Family - Value System

My Value System

I have made a 4-S Value System when I was in +2 - Simple, Sincere, Straight and Strong. Now, I find that they are still valid and my values include one more S - Systematic.

Now, I am presenting to you all my Value System.

Strong: To become strong – Physically, Emotionally, Intellectually and Spiritually is my main desire or aim of life. This is the very purpose of my life. Therefore it forms the center core of the Value System

Sincere: Unless we are sincere enough to admit our mistakes and take advises from preceptors despite the fact that we do not buy them or agree with them and follow them sincerely is the way to become strong. Therefore I sincerely admit my mistakes, weakness and lacks. I also follow the advices given by my teachers; even though many of them are not in align with my ego or desires. Thus I demonstrate my sincerity to become strong by casting off the Ego for the purpose of becoming strong.

Straight: The approach should be straight and directed towards the utility. Unless we are straight enough to be focused on the “Utility” and “Being” aspect of life, we would not become strong. This is the aspect of being dotted on the exact issues at hand and resolve rather than beating around the bush. This is the efficiency and effectiveness factors regarding one’s action.

Simple: The real measurement of strength is in simplicity. Unless we are simple, keep things simple and live simply, we would complicate our lives and thus it would drain our energies and thus result in weakness. Hence to be strong, we have to follow the virtue of Simplicity.

Systematic: Unless we are systematic and maintain objectivity with integrity and independence, we would not be able to simplify our life and thus achieve the strength. I am finding that I am mad of making things with objectivity and precision. This can come only when I systematically convert all Subjective Knowledge into Objective Consciousness. Only when I am systematic, I can transfer my knowledge to others and get an extended arm or leave a legacy.

My Family Value System

Unless my family is complimenting my Value System, I can’t live it. I believe unless it is a mistake of mine or self made deviation, I am able to live my Value System. How was this possible when all my Family Members are having different aspirations and approaches?

I wondered and found that my Family’s Value System. The Component of our Family Value System are as follows.

Focus: The Core of our Family Value System is Focus. We focus on Our Relationship, Our Development – individually and collectively and Our Expressions. There is complete adherence to the Required Focus by each of our Family Members. We find that we are always fanatically focused on what we do and hence, each of the family member is able to add to the Family some Value.

Futuristic yet Traditional: The Members of our Family are completely futuristic and modern in our thoughts and approaches. However at the same time we maintain our Family Traditions. Tradition draw us together and binds us.

Friends and Family: We are all well focused on both friendship and family, thus we have balanced both the sort of relationship and as a result able to extent the family beyond immediate members and able to accept and accommodate any person who is willing to accept our Value System. This keeps our family to grow with apt focus on our Values.

Freedom yet Self Disciplined: We enjoy complete freedom. I can choose what I have to learn, the method I can earn and even the way I worship. Hence, we are completely free to do anything and every thing. The only constraint is we should not damage Family Reputation, thus the concern for it makes us to be Self Disciplined. Thus we are self regulated person. This aspect helps us to live our individual life and as well as together as a family.

Full Consideration: All of us are drawn to consider issues from all angles – from the angle of individual self, family, friends and general public. This makes us to be sincere, straight and simple. Thus this Value of Family Aspect make us unique and lovable and loving people despite our individual flaws. This makes us to feel completely satisfied with our Family despite our economic and other conditions.

Over All Approach:

Value System should be reflected in our activities. The activities follow a pattern of thought processes and hence I studied the Value Chain of our activities. I found that it has 5As. They are as below:

Attitude: We develop our attitude continuously. Strengthen it and guard it. This is demonstrated by our approach with a focused “charging” of our emotions.

Awareness: We try to become aware of our selves and that of the issues around us. We debate, shout, discuss and fight to get hold of the issues 100%.

Acceptance: We have the mind to accept what is not changeable. We approach any issues, opportunities or problems, only affect accepting things as they are

Adaptation: We have the ability to make things to adapt to our requirements and ourselves to adapt to the situation. We are evolving continuously. That’s why each of our Family Members are having growing wisdom.

Accountable: We have the responsibility to hold ourselves accountable for what we do. This makes us more reliable and also increases our wisdom as we suffer from our mistakes and learn from it.

Hope you all enjoyed reading about me and my family value system and value chain. I hope this inspires you to become more self aware and draw your own Core Values.

Yours

VN